Tell me what YOU thing!!

Which is better:
* To love and loose - or never to have loved?
* To start a journey and take the wrong turn, so you have to go back to make the right one - or
never to go anywhere?
* To hope and be dissappointed - or to have no hope at all?
* To try and fail - or not to try at all?
* To be a fool for awhile and ask - or be stupid forever and never know things?
* To desire and not get it - or never to desire anything?
* To gain a painful knowlegde - or to be oblivous?
* To go have the operations that's bound to cause some pain - or don't go and keep carrying the
disease?
* To meet a good friend, one that lives along way from you and you don't sea all that often and
then when you sepperate again miss him all the more - or just never sea him?
* To participate in life an fall every now and then - or to wait passivly for death'
* To strife through the hard times and concur them - or to just kinda avoid them as much as
you can and never concur it'
* To experience hard times and learn to be a victor - or to just go with the flow and never deal
with anything?

I bielieve that everything that means something in life has it's price - pain, effort, dissapointment, mistakes.... But the question remains - if it isn't worth it? Isn't it worth it to go through some pain, make a few mistakes - and learn from it, become a better person and a stronger character??? Isn't it better to live and FEEL it than not to really live at all????
Tell me what YOU thing!!!!
Please DO comment so I'll know somebody is reading this!!!
H&K,
I blow you a good night kiss.
LU,
Ella Gitta